Tuesday, September 25, 2018

The Beatles - The Continuing Story Of Bungalow Bill (Bootleg)


Sent from my iPad

Wagon Wheel - Live From Daryl's House Episode 68


Sent from my iPad

The Reverend Peyton's Big Damn Band - "Front Porch Trained"


Sent from my iPad

Science Says: Your Meanest Friend Is The One Who Actually Wants The Best For You

Science Says: Your Meanest Friend Is The One Who Actually Wants The Best For You

Science Says: Your Meanest Friend Is The One Who Actually Wants The Best For You

Most of us have that one friend who is very dear to us but are also honest to the point of being hurtful. Sometimes, we just tend to dismiss their words because we think that they are just saying them to hurt us. But scientific proof exists to show us that when a very close friend does this, hurting you is not even close to what they actually hope to achieve.
Studies show that these are the friends who are genuine and sincere. They are only trying to ensure that you have the best of everything. A study released by a journal called Psychological Science shows that those who try to get others to face negativity actually think that by doing so, they are helping others get ready to face other obstacles that they can't protect them from.
The University of Plymouth did this study with over a hundred volunteers. Researchers gave the subjects different situations and made note of how they behaved in each. For example, a friend is made to feel scared that they will fail when they are distracted from their studies. When they asked their subjects to step into the other person's shoes, the subjects were more likely to pick hurtful means if they believed ultimately it would benefit the other person.
This study proved what the researchers already knew – that sometimes kindness comes disguised as cruelty. People only used negativity for certain emotions and situations. We tend to perceive an emotion as having a fixed impact and work only on the ones that are more appropriate in every situation.

These Are the Questions a Psychologist Says Will Make You Fall in Love with Anyone.

In simpler terms, this means that a friend is cruel at times because that's what you need. They don't actually want to cause you any pain or harm and the only reason they're doing this is that they genuinely want to help you be the best that you can be.

Sometimes what they're doing might not be clear to you then but when faced with a situation, the words or actions that you thought were unkind will actually help you find a way out. Of course, it is important to be able to distinguish between when someone is actually trying to help you and when they're just trying to tear you down. But the former will stick with you through thick and thin whereas the latter type of people will only be around when they can get some sort of satisfaction from your pain.

Sent from my iPad


Go Forth

Plan Your Nap!

Prolonged Anxiety

Today’s Tee

Sophia Loren

He Has Food!

Step Right Up

One Flew Over...


Rarely Seen

Blob Fish


And.... Wait

Marilyn Monroe

... Call Me